I came to
you with my burdens,
Asking for
your help.
You told me to, “Pray.”
And I became
angry.
I think I expected
something different.
I wanted you
to reach down in the maternal region your heart was supposed to enclose
And return
with a masterpiece of divine and practical wisdom.
I wanted
lofty words,
Magical remedies,
Fancy modern
guidance,
Sprinkled with
humor and attention.
But instead
You told me to, “Pray.”
And my heart
grew cold.
I didn’t
want to pray.
I wanted you
to have the answers.
So in my
anger,
I decided to nurture my growing aches and
pains
And contribute
further into my confusion.
I was mad at
you.
I thought,
What kind of mothers hears the woes of her child and simply tells her to pray?
I wanted your
words
To be the
analgesic my sore heart needed.
I wanted you
to kiss it and make it all better.
I wanted you
to fix it and tell me it would be ok.
Because that’s
what mothers do.
Instead
You told me to pray.
So I did,
begrudgingly.
I asked God
why he gave me a mother like you.
In my bitter
rage
I asked why
you hated me so much, that you wouldn’t even give me an answer
And flip me
off with what I thought was haphazard, generic advice.
I asked
Him why you were giving me such a hard
time.
And as the
hot tears streamed down my face,
Sitting still
with my clenched fists and stiffened spirit,
He showed me
why
you didn’t
have all the answers I sought.
You told me to pray
Because your
mother told you to pray.
You told me
the best answer you knew.
So when the
day comes where my child will need answers
When she
approaches me requesting the solutions to her problems,
When she
wants lofty words,
Magical remedies,
And fancy,
modern guidance,
sprinkled with
humor and attention.
I will tell her to pray.
Because that’s
what good mothers do.